Curious Back There? A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Play

Welcome to the World of Anal Play

Welcome to a new kind of intimacy — slow, sensual, and full of surprises. If you’re just beginning to explore anal play, you’re not alone. Whether you’re chasing new sensations or sharing the journey with a partner, your curiosity is the perfect place to start.

At Made in Heaven, we believe pleasure should always feel safe, consensual, and exciting. That’s why we’ve created this gentle guide to backdoor play — complete with essential tips, must-have beginner toys, and advice on how to enjoy every step of the journey.

Why Try It?

There’s a special kind of thrill in exploring the places we’ve left untouched — and anal play is one of them. It’s about teasing the edges of pleasure, going slow, and discovering new ways to connect with your body (or someone else’s). It’s curiosity in motion, trust in practice, and sensation unlike anything else.

How to Begin Your Backdoor Journey

1. Start Small, Go Slow

Begin with a small, beginner-friendly toy like a slim plug or a smooth set of beads. Let your body guide the pace. There’s no rush.

2. Lube Is Essential

The anus doesn’t self-lubricate — so a high-quality anal lube is non-negotiable. Water-based and silicone lubes are both great choices.

Don’t be shy; use as much as you need.

3. Relax and Breathe

Being turned on helps, but so does being relaxed. Play in a setting where you feel safe, secure, and in control. Breathe deeply and stay connected to the sensations.

4. Clean and Care

Hygiene matters. Use a gentle, non-scented soap or toy cleaner before and after use. And aftercare — whether it’s cuddles, water, or just lying still — is part of the pleasure, too.

Toys You’ll Love

Beginner Anal Plugs: Tapered, soft, and just the right size. These are ideal for warming up or wearing during other kinds of play. Try:

• Metaverse Plug – Soft, flexible silicone with a beginner-friendly shape.
• Spiral Loop Plug – Perfect for slow, swirling sensations

Anal Beads Perfect for teasing and slow release. Insert gradually and enjoy the build-up:

• Gamma Plug (Teal) – Sleek, safe, and oh-so-forgiving.
• Satisfyer Booty Call – Set to graduated beads for rising intensity.

Anal Dildos Smooth and slim for controlled penetration:

• Strap On Me – Snaky – Gentle curves for targeted pressure.
• Strap On Me – Wave (night blue) – With soft waves and a gentle curve, perfect for slow, rhythmic exploration.

Anal Vibrators: for when you’re ready to turn things up.

• Satisfyer Hot Passion – A beginner’s dream for slow, teasing play.
• Erica by Svakom –  Deep vibrations in a sleek, beginner-friendly shape. Designed for effortless pleasure and precise stimulation.

Beginner Anal Kit Everything you need in one place.

• Zero Tolerance – A complete starter set for beginners curious about anal and prostate play. Includes three shapes to explore, plus a vibrating bullet for added intensity.

Real Talk: Tips for a Great First Time

• Go at your own pace. What feels right for you is right for you.
• Use more lube than you think you need. Always.
• Check in with yourself or your partner. A little communication goes a long way.
• Stop if anything hurts. Discomfort is a signal, not a challenge.
• Don’t compare your experience. This is your exploration.

Aftercare Is Part of the Pleasure

Clean your toys gently, stay hydrated, and give your body space to return to baseline. Even a few minutes of cuddles or silence can feel grounding

and sweet.

Ready to Begin?

There’s a first time for everything — it can be soft, exciting, and unforgettable. Whether you’re solo or with a partner, our curated selection of beginner anal toys is here to guide your journey.

Want to spice things up with your partner? Check out our Top 10 Must-Have Couples Sex Toys in 2025 for more fun and connection.